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Life is full of ups and downs; times when there seem to be no one around. It has never been a bed of full of roses. At certain points in one’s life, set backs are bound to be experienced. Like my friend, Oyetope Giwa would say, “Shit happens. It all depends on how you handle it.” The bitter truth is that nobody is actually completely self reliant, at some point in time we all go back to our closets to weep our hearts out and then come out laughing all the way with friends even though nothing is amusing. As fate would have it, some people seem to do it more frequently than others do, some are so good with it that they knew could win international awards for the best actor as they try hiding the gigantic hollow in their hearts they desperately want to fill.
Whether we can handle what comes our way better or not, everything that has a beginning surely has an end. The beginning of man is birth and death is the end. Problems are meant to come into our lives to make us better people. If a man has never experienced problem or gets everything in wants out of life on a platter of gold without any form of challenge, he is as good as living dead because only God can save him when he eventually falls into one. A popular American musician once said, “If I had to do it all again, I won’t take away the pain cos they make me who I am”. Pain is the essence of life, there is never a true gain without pain. What we need to do whenever we experience a challenge Is to accept It, embrace It, and understand It, with time we will come to realize that no matter how much we seem to be sticking in the mess, the solution is just by the door.
If the foundation is faulty what can the righteous do? It doesn’t matter who you are or where you have been, with the help of the Almighty God who will not leave you or forsake you, you can start all over again for the better because some problems will actually need you to relay your foundation because your initial foundation is not good enough. Embrace your problems today and you will find that you are better for it.